Some men never seem to grow up. No matter if he is making irresponsible decisions, like choosing to play video games over finishing up an important task, or is unreliable and cannot be counted on, you do not have to deal with a childish-behaving man. Not only is his behavior annoying, he could be causing you a lot of stress regardless of whether you are dating him, he is your co-worker or a complete stranger. If you are with a man who seems to endlessly display childish characteristics or who just cannot grasp it is time to stand up and seize some adult responsibilities, then you might be in a very frustrating situation. Some men do not realize that they are behaving like this. Clear communication and a little guidance can help some men realize that it is time to grow up, but you have to be careful not to offend. Put him in his place and on your level by handling him appropriately.
Ignore his behavior – Pass up acknowledging the childish things he does, even if it is avoiding a conversation with him mid-sentence. Change the subject as soon as he starts behaving immaturely as not to encourage his behavior. Excuse yourself or simply walk away when he is displaying childish behavior.
Get your own priorities in order -Pursue an adult life and responsibilities on your own. It is impossible to get someone else to act more mature if you cannot do it yourself. Sometimes this is enough to inspire your partner to take on adult responsibilities.
Avoid dealing with him – Walk the other way when you see him coming, tell him you are busy and cannot spend time with him or that you are simply not interested. If after you have warned him he continues to conduct himself in the same way, avoid him at all cost.
Speak honestly to your man about how you feel – Let him know certain behaviors of his appear immature. It is important not to attack. Tell him that this is how you perceive his actions and invite him to discuss the issue with you. Immature behavior is not always what it appears to be on the surface. If nothing else, this opens a dialogue about the concerns that you have.
Engage into more mature activities – Try to find positive hobbies or activities that you can do together. Immature men might think partying all night is the only way they can enjoy themselves. Finding more mature and productive ways to spend leisure time can show them that life can be enjoyable without acting like you are still a teenager.
Consider to professionals – Talk to a professional if you want to pursue the relationship, but the immaturity of your partner is holding you back. If he respects you and wants to save the relationship, he will. Just broaching the subject of talking to a professional also provides him a wake-up call. Work with a counselor. Discuss what you see as the immaturity of your partner and listen to the feedback about your own behavior, or why he acts the way he does.
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