It is intimidating and challenging if you want to talk with your girlfriend when she is angry. Some girls when they are mad prefer to give them space while others get totally pissed off if they are being ignored by their partner. On the part of men, it is really challenging, you wanted to talk things out but it seems like talking to her is a poor choice. All you have to do is to learn how you will talk to her because talking is the only way to make things right and make unclear situations see vividly. However, talking must know where you will come in, how you will approach her, and the things you must avoid to tell her. Your girlfriend may make herself unavailable, sarcastic or distant, or even do not admit that anything is wrong. Moreover, by the anger she is feeling, the small issue might turn into much larger and more difficult to deal with. Here are some ways to do to ensure that your message gets across in your girlfriend when she is mad.
Find out what has caused your girlfriend to be angry, if ever you have no idea. Analyze when she started to get angry and in what circumstances she is in that time. Ask yourself if there is anything you did that could have caused her to upset. If you cannot still figure it out, ask her why she feels that way in a calm and polite approach. Let her know that you want to make her feel better and do some amends.
Deal with the issue that is upsetting your girlfriend. Let her know that you do not want her to be sad and if you do something wrong, then apologize right away. Talk to her that you want to work things out s she is no longer feeling the frustration and so you two can continue to have a strong and healthy relationship. Make sure you are not saying things just to soothe her feelings and get over her anger, rather you want to know it because you want to be clear on the things that make her upset and preventing it in the future to happen.
Give your girlfriend a time to cool off. Walk away for an hour or more if your girlfriend is devastated and says that she does not want to talk. More often than not, trying to get an angry lady to talk might only add up to her anger when all she needs is a little time to cool down. When you come back after an hour, she might still be angry, but much more open to talking after a little bit of time. After giving her allotted time to think alone, go back and try to talk with her again.
If the reason for making her angry is something you do not intentionally want to do, explain it calmly to her. If you were at burden, say sorry and tell her how you are planning to fix the behavior. If you are not sincere in your apology, there is no need to apologize. It will only make the situation worst when she notice that you are not sincere. Tell to her that you care so much to her and you value your relationship.
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